The first thing people pick up from you is what they see.
Because they see you before they talk to you. And even
more received than what you say is what you show through
your body language.
Body language is the outward manifestation of our
inner beliefs and thoughts. It’s a language that everyone
speaks but few can consciously translate and understand.
The way you walk is one way to send out a signal of
who you are so that you are positively received by others.
Take Tigger and Eyore for examples. Tiggers’ body
language is fun and exciting and draws people to him.
Where as Eyore is depressing and closed off which pushes
people away because they don’t want to have that in their lives.
Confidence is one of the greatest attributes for attraction
around. I’m going to teach you how to show that in your
stride.
Here’s the trick:
The way to walk to catch their eye
Posture - Slouched shoulders is a sign of laziness
and un-organization. When positioned back and with
the chest out a bit, it is a sign of dominion and confidence.
Roll shoulders back and let them down. This usually
take a bit of effort to keep them in this position at first
but it is worth it.
The walk - Small steps are a sign of uncertainty
and over cautiousness in a casual walk. Big strides
show that you know where you are going in life and
you are ready to conquer opposition to get there.
Eyes - Many times we avoid eye contact with others
when they get close or connect their eyes to ours,
this puts off a sign of shyness and insecurity. On
the contrary, when you look directly into their
eyes without wavering (even when they look back)
then you show that you are sure of yourself and
comfortable with who you are.
Head positioning - Looking down is a sign of loneliness
and isolation. Go with the saying “keep your chin up”.
Having your head up and level shows optimism, that with
all the junk that we deal with in life, you are determined
to choose to be happy.
Test out these four simple adjustments this weekend when
you are with a group of people and post your results below!
Also, check out my free Win Win Dating Guide and start
getting more dates this week!
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